Kwaheri Steve
28 November 2017 | Inside Angama | Nicky Fitzgerald
The time had come to bid Steve goodbye high up on the edge of the Great Rift Valley at a place he loved more than any other. And it was a day of days …
Early in the morning on Thursday 16 November we headed down into the lovely Mara Triangle just as the sun broke through the horizon on a Silent Safari in Steve’s honour. This beautiful experience was a thank-you to Steve from Graham and Emily Wallington of WildEarth and safariLIVE presenter extraordinaire James Hendry. We rolled slowly down the escarpment where we were greeted by a small herd of buffalo, Steve’s favourite animals. He always claimed they look at you as if you owe them money. Brand new topis were trying out their gangly legs and a family of warthogs with the tiniest piglets dashed for cover. It was a perfect Mara morning. After two hours of meandering about we headed back up the hill where a giraffe sat sentinel watching us go by.
The Angama family had planned for Steve’s memorial service to be held on a beautiful site overlooking the Mara, the Out of Africa kopje and the Oloololo Escarpment. It was all set up and then the black clouds started rolling in from Lake Victoria. ‘No problem’ said Azei, our unflappable lodge operations manager, ‘we will set up in South Camp’ – with only 20 minutes to spare.
Steve had firmly instructed us that he wanted a Big Funeral. And big he got, up there in Maasailand. Over 300 people, many sopping wet, squeezed into South Camp guest area for his farewell service – there wasn’t a square inch to spare. We prayed, we sang, we danced, we lit candles, we remembered, we cried, we laughed and we paid tribute to a man deeply loved and deeply missed by all. Janet, one of our askaris, rocked out the songs; the contractors who built the lodge (Steve’s favourite KC’s) even boogied a bit; guests gave up their game drive to celebrate with us; Pastor Mary from the Safari Shop led the service; the guides wore T shirts printed especially for the occasion (and stole the show in doing so); Simon, headmaster from Emurutoto Primary School gave thanks on behalf of the community; last to speak was Steve’s dear friend Governor Samuel Tunai who braved the worst weather possible flying in to pay tribute him; and if that wasn’t enough emotion for the day, the school children sang and danced the service to a close.
Steve would have loved every moment of it. Angama Mara was his dream and how thankful we all are for his beautiful swan song. We will treasure it for always.
Rest in peace beloved Steve.
Note from the Editor: Our heartfelt thanks to safariLIVE for filming both the Silent Safari and Steve’s memorial service.
COMMENTS (33)
Will Taylor
November 28, 2017what a wonderful send off – Steve would have loved it deeply. We love you Nicky and by extension every soul in that room saying goodbye to our hero…
REPLYNicky Fitzgerald
November 28, 2017Thank you dearest Will – he would have adored it …
REPLYPaige
November 28, 2017“When he shall die,
REPLYTake him and cut him out in little stars,
And he will make the face of heaven so fine
That all the world will be in love with night
And pay no worship to the garish sun.”
William Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet
My Lovelies, So sad to learn this news and so filled with gratitude to have spent time with Steve and the Angama family when the dream was coming to fruition. What an amazing life and legacy. My thoughts, love and prayers with all of you. xo Paige
Nicky Fitzgerald
November 29, 2017Thank you dearest Paige – this is beautiful. I have shared with the crazy crew from when we opened and I know they will be so happy to hear from you. Please come back soon and be a proper guest this time – no trimming of loo brushes 🙂
REPLYShari Provenzano
November 28, 2017I watched the memorial service and it was so beautiful- filled with laughter , love and tears. Reading your blog Nicky was inspirational. You have such a way with words and they conveyed such a sweet and emotional send off . Kwaheri Steve.
REPLYNicky Fitzgerald
November 29, 2017Thank you for the beautiful message dear Shari – you are a special member of the Angama family and we treasure that dearly
REPLYSara
November 28, 2017I was there in spirit and so glad it was such a success.. Til we meet again. God bless
REPLYSara x
Nicky Fitzgerald
November 29, 2017Thank you dear Sara
REPLYJames Fitzgerald
November 28, 2017Brilliant Nicks – well done.
REPLYWhat a day it was – how moving to experience how loved he was!
Nicky Fitzgerald
November 29, 2017Thank you for coming all the way from Cape Town to wish him goodbye
REPLYPeter Farnell-Watson
November 28, 2017Brava Nicky – so apt, precise and beautifully written – we miss him deeply and we too will make a silent prayer to him when we pass down the escarpment on our visit next year. Asante sana Steve
REPLYNicky Fitzgerald
November 29, 2017Thank you dear Peter – Steve will never be far from especially especially in the Mara , a place he loved above all others
REPLYMartin Njage
November 29, 2017A very fitting tribute and send off to a true gentleman. Steve you will live forever in our hearts.
REPLYAnnette Magni
November 29, 2017I watched it all & really felt I was there with you Nicks. A truly wonderful farewell to such a special man; dearest Steve, I will miss you so
REPLYNicky Fitzgerald
November 29, 2017I so wish you had been there – it was a beautiful farewell
REPLYGordon Sims
November 29, 2017What a lovely send off to an amazing man. He loved Africa and his family equally. He will always be a part of who I am today. Hope to make it to Angama soon and see you again Nicky – lots of love xxx
REPLYNicky Fitzgerald
November 29, 2017Thank you for this lovely message, Gordon and we very much look forward to welcoming you to the Mara
REPLYNicky Fitzgerald
December 1, 2017Thank you for this lovely post dear Gordon
REPLYJames Currie
November 29, 2017Dearest Nicky and the entire Angama family. Steve meant so much to so many people but he was so more than that. He shaped the way so many of us interact and thrive in the safari world. A visionary, a leader and a true hero of mine and so many others. Thanks to you Nicks and all at Angama for sharing this moving farewell with all of us that couldn’t be there.
REPLYNicky Fitzgerald
December 1, 2017Dear James
REPLYThank you for this beautiful tribute to Steve – we will all treasure it.
We miss him so …
Tessa and Harris Gordon
November 29, 2017Loving thoughts from Harris and Tessa in Cape Town
REPLYNicky Fitzgerald
December 1, 2017Thank you dear Tessa and Gordon
REPLYNicky Fitzgerald
December 3, 2017Thank you so much
REPLYLara Tranter
November 30, 2017What a beautiful tribute to such a wonderful man who lived an incredible life! He was blessed in so many ways. He will be remembered always.
REPLYSending you lots of love and a big hug Nicky ❤️
Nicky Fitzgerald
December 1, 2017Thank you dear Lara
REPLYLisa Grainger
November 30, 2017Sounds like a perfect send off. Love from Londonxxx
REPLYNicky Fitzgerald
December 1, 2017It was perfect in every way …
REPLYRoxanne
December 2, 2017What a wonderful tribute to a very special man! I joined facebook the day before so we could watch the live feed – was really a special honor:) Hope we can say a silent homage to Steve if back at Angama in the future! Love from Medicine Hat
REPLYNicky Fitzgerald
December 3, 2017Dear Roxanne
REPLYPlease come back – I will go with you on this homage and if we are allowed to speak just a little we will share all the stories about our travels together.
Warmest – Nicky
Glenn Oltmanns
December 3, 2017Dearest Nicky what a very special tribute to the man you loved so well. Xxxxx
REPLYNicky Fitzgerald
December 4, 2017Thank you, dear Glen
REPLYGeorge Tucker
December 11, 2017Dear Nicky,
REPLYThe news of Steve’s passing just reached me here in Mexico and I am still in shock. Glad he had the fitting farewell he so well deserved. I regret I didn’t get to see him in June .
You have my deepest sympathies,
George
Nicky Fitzgerald
December 11, 2017Dear George
REPLYThak you so much for your kind message about Steve.
We all miss him so.
Warm regards
Nicky